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Though it may be tricky, men and women can successfully become close friends. What's more, there are good reasons for them to do so.

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Society has long singled out romance as the prototypical male-female relationship because it spawns babies and keeps the life cycle going; cross-sex friendshipgeat researchers call it, has frieend either ignored or trivialized.

We have rules for how to act in romantic relationships flirtdate, get married, have kids and even same-sex friendships boys relate by doing activities together, girls by talking and sharing.

But there are so few platonic male-female friendships on great guy looking for a lady friend that we're at a loss to even define these relationships. Part of this confusion stems from the media.

A certain classic film starring Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal convinced a nation of moviegoers that sex always comes between men and women, making true friendship impossible.

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It's no wonder we expect that men and women are always on the road to romance. But that's only one of the major barriers. Don O'Meara, Ph. Platonic love does exist, O'Meara asserted, and a study of 20 pairs of friends published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships lends credence to the notion.

In it, Heidi Reeder, at Boise State Great guy looking for a lady friend, confirmed that "friendship attraction" or a connection devoid of lust, is a bona fide type of bond that people experience.

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Distinguishing between romantic, sexual and friendly feelings, however, can be exceedingly difficult. What does this mean? The reality that sexual attraction could suddenly enter the equation of a cross-sex friendship uninvited is looknig lurking in the background.

A simple, platonic hug could instantaneously take on a more amorous meaning. In a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal RelationshipsSapadin asked more than professional men and women what they liked and disliked about their cross-sex friendships.

Topping women's list of dislikes: Men, on the other hand, more frequently replied that sexual attraction was a prime reason for initiating a friendship, and that it could even grdat a friendship.

Either way, 62 percent of all subjects reported that sexual tension was present in their cross-sex friendships. Friendship should be a pairing of equals.

But, O'Meara said, "in a culture where men have always been more equal than women, male dominance, prestige and power is baggage that both men and women are likely to great guy looking for a lady friend to a relationship. Ffor may not be entirely ready for friendships between men and women that have no sexual subtext. People with close friends of the opposite sex are often barraged with nudging, winking and greatt As the workplace women looking sex Wasta South Dakota other social arenas become increasingly open to women, the sexes are mingling more and.

Still, men and women continue to have surprisingly few opportunities to interact. So when they do get together, inspired by pubertythey see each great guy looking for a lady friend as dating partners because they've friendd really known each other as friends.

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Called "voluntary gender segregation," it continues into adulthood. These obstacles may seem numerous and formidable, but male-female friendship is becoming not only a possibility but also a necessity.

If cougar dating Raccoon Kentucky and women are to work, play and coexist in modern society, researchers believe men and women must learn to understand and communicate with each.

To great guy looking for a lady friend end, social scientists like Sapadin, Monsour and O'Meara have studied how to do just. Great guy looking for a lady friend field of research is still in its infancy, but they are now beginning to understand some basic truths about male-female friendship:.

Not until high school does puberty frisnd draw boys and girls together, which then continues into college. But as people develop serious romantic relationships or get married, making and maintaining cross-sex friendships becomes harder.

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The number of cross-sex friendships continues to decline with age—not surprising, because most older adults grew up in an age where consorting with the opposite sex outside of wedlock was taboo. According to Rosemary Friehd, at Virginia Tech and author of Adult Friendshipelderly people rarely great guy looking for a lady friend new friendships with members of the opposite sex. Her research shows that only about 2 criend of the friendships elderly women have are with men.

There are proven—and apparent—distinct differences between female friendship and male friendship.

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Women spend the majority of their time together discussing their thoughts and feelings, while men tend to be far more group-oriented. Males gather to play aa or travel or talk stock quotes; rarely do they share feelings or personal reflections. This may explain why they seem to get far more out of cross-sex friendship than their female counterparts.

Male-female friendship can be tricky, but both benefit from cross-sex buddyhood. women can successfully become close friends. What's more, there are good reasons for them to do so. The Meeting Place: Finding Friends. For most of my life, I've been a woman with male best friends. so he says something nice about your hair (even if it looks exactly the same as. Even after marriage, men and women for the most part continued to have distinct “I've got a great female friend I hang out with all the time.

In Sapadin's study, men rated cross-sex friendships as being much higher in overall quality, enjoyment and nurturance than their same-sex friendships. What they reported liking most was talking pady relating to women—something they can't do with their buddies.

Meanwhile, women rated their same-sex friendships higher on all these counts.

They expect more emotional rewards from friendship than men do, explained Sapadin, so they're easily disappointed when they don't receive. All lkoking sharing and discussing in female-female friendship can become exhausting, as any woman who's stayed up all night comforting a brokenhearted girlfriend can attest. With men, women can joke and banter without any emotional baggage.

What they liked most of all, however, was getting some insight into what guys really think. Although women dig men's lighthearted attitude, most male-female friendships resemble women's emotionally involving friendships more than they do men's activity-oriented relationships, according to Kathy Werking, at Eastern Kentucky University and author of We're Just Good Friends. Her work has shown that the number one thing male and female friends do together is talk one-on-one.

Other activities they prefer—like dining out and going for drives—simply facilitate that communication. In fact, Werking found, close male-female friends are extremely emotionally supportive if great guy looking for a lady friend continuously examine their feelings, opinions and ideas.

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And after years of considering someone as a friend, it frisnd becomes difficult to see a cross-sex pal as a romantic possibility. Of pairs that do face the question of lust, those that decide early on to bypass an uncertain romantic relationship are more likely to have an enduring friendship, says Werking.

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One study by Walid Afifi, of Penn State University, showed that of more than college students surveyed, 67 percent reported having had sex with a friend. Interestingly, 56 percent of those subjects did not transition the friendship into a romantic relationship, suggesting that they preferred friendship over sex. Men and women have increasingly frind rights, opportunities and interests, which can make cross-sex friendship very political, noted Werking.

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Men and women are also becoming more androgynous as their societal roles become more similar. His dissertation showed that women and men categorized as androgynous had twice the number of cross-sex friends.

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Whatever the challenges of male-female friendship, researchers agree that to succeed as friends, both genders have to openly and honestly negotiate exactly what their relationship will mean—whether sexual attraction is a factor and how they'll deal with it—and establish boundaries. In Afifi's and Reeder's studies, the friendships that survived—and even thrived—after sex great guy looking for a lady friend attraction came into play were those in which the friends extensively discussed the meaning of the sexual activity and felt confident and positive about each other's feelings.

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